But besides all the things I miss of home I still feel, in a different kind of way, like I'm home here in Edinburgh, specifically at Bethany House. Like I have said in previous posts the staff and residents at the house made me feel welcomed. The biggest way they made me feel at home here is a thing called "Scottish Banter" or in other words giving each other a hard time. Now if you know me well then you know I love to give people a hard time, Not because I don't like people, but actually for the opposite reason because I love them. Now the Scottish have mastered this art and if your not trained in this form of communicating you will get your feelings hurt, you will think that people don't like you or be confused as to why people would talk to each other like that. The beautiful thing about it is everyone as a different way they play the game. Now I like to think I play fairly, can be a little cut-throat at times, but for the most part I play fair and I can hold my own. Which, for the most part I have held my own. I will admit that I have "lost" or a couple of time been lost for words (Usually has something to do with the news of whats going on back in the States, but that's for a different post for a different time). But overall I have held my own. Now for some back at home or others reading this you might find this fact that, partly the reason why I feel at home here is because people make fun of me, is just a little weird. Let me explain the best I can. When i'm on the picked on or (winded up is what they say here) it lets me know that they notice me and in a strange sense that they care. It is the same way that comedians get a way with making jokes that normally people would be disgusted with or think it's inappropriate, and if you think that the comedian doesn't care about what they are making a joke about then you are sadly mistaken. It is also a way for me to check my own ego to know that I'm just a small piece in this world that God has created, But that I am still loved and important!
For those who don't know this is the beautiful Honey Butter Chicken Biscuit... Your welcome! |